You think you're not pretty, someone is wishing to be as pretty as you. You want more money, people are in poverty. You want a boyfriend, someone doesn't even have parents. You're hungry, a child is starving. You want to go to the mall, someone is looking for anything to wear just to stay warm. You're chilly, others are frozen. You just want to die, most people are striving to live. So don't waste your time on things that you think you don't have, because there is always someone out there who needs what you have.
Ehh..well I guess it wasn't meant to be. Sadly, even the best relationships don't work...All I can say is that keep trying. You obviously have a great head on your shoulders and know what to look for and everything. I'm positive you will find a guy who's sensitive and straight and will be exactly what you've always wanted (as cliche as that sounds)
Thank you. Actually he doesn’t have to be all that perfect… i need him to be perfect for me. Just for me and not every one else. You’re sucha nice guy, pretty smart one for your age. ;)
I understand that you may be at a point where enough is enough, I've been there. But I ask you to do this next time you find someone you like:
Does he follow any patterns any of your ex's had? Learn the things that your ex did before he was a giant douche. Use that to determine if the guy is real or not. If the patterns are similar, stay away from him because he'll be just like the rest of them.
Or just go after a totally different type of guy
no darl. Nothin’ like my ex. I know, i did my homework. In fact very much different from guys i was ever interested in. It was beautiful at first, almost perfect… then it all becomes a mess later on.
Ohh he exists, you just have to be open to it happening. Because maybe right now, you view every single guy as a heartless douchebag who will just use you. And maybe a past douchebag taught you to believe that and protect yourself. But not every guy is like that, give some a chance
I know. That’s why i never stop allowing myself to be in love. And when it happens… just when i thought this guy might be better then the last. I’m wrong, all over again. I’m always told, to choose wisely, to open my heart and not be afraid to love again but i am getting to the point where enough is enough. It’s either i’ve no such luck or really, just douchebags.
haha uhhhh, maybe..but most likely not. I'm not perfect, no one really is. But please don't say that you think all sensitive guys are gay because honestly, it will probably make them be less sensitive. And that's the opposite of what you want
then again, it would also probably make them more sensitive, coz that’s what we(ladies) want. =D It could be a good thing though, but i hope it doesn’t affect you negatively.
You’re beautiful, the guy who did you wrong, who left you, ignored you, didn’t recognize your feelings. Made you cry, ruined days of months. He didn’t deserve you. You deserve better. You deserve a guy who can understand you, be there for you, be the shoulder when you need someone, look at you straight in the eye, and honestly tell you how much you mean to him. You need a guy who ignores everything else, and pays attention to you. A guy who makes you feel special in every way. A guy who treats you like the world. A guy who accepts you, a guy who can look straight through you, and loves the view, a guy who accepts your flaws, and cherishes them. A guy who goes past your looks, and stares at your heart, without having to take off the shirt. A guy who can understand your every word, love your every smile, and loves you for what you are, instead of what you’re not. A guy who doesn’t care how popular, or not popular you are. A guy who puts you as the first and only option. A guy who only wants you and no one else. A guy who would chase after you. Even when you let go. A guy who would make a fool out of himself, just to see that smile on your face. A guy who would miss you, even when you’re in front of his face. A guy who tells you , you’re beautiful, even when you deny it. You deserve this.
Maybe our old wounds teach us something. They remind us where we’ve been and what we’ve overcome. They teach us lessons about what to avoid in the future. That’s what we like to think. But that’s not the way it is, is it? Somethings we’d just have to learn over and over and over again.
“Tell me when you hear my silence.” Think about it this way: Someone in this world is attending a funeral right now and weeping at the coffin. The lady in that to-die-for baby pink chiffon scarf who passed you in the street might have just been turned away from her last job interview for the third consecutive day. The well-dressed, smart-looking man dressed in a suit carrying his briefcase to work could be battling cancer. That rich-looking lady in the limousine that you’re really envious of, who just drove past, might be really upset because she just heard the news that her husband’s passed away in a car crash. Or maybe that grungy teen on the corner of the street is just this close to having a break down because she thinks she might be pregnant and her boyfriend is nowhere to be found. And how about that middle-aged lady who looked so kind, maybe she’s actually got no money on her to buy her dog some food and pay the hospital bills for her sick daughter? So smile at a stranger, tell a girl she’s beautiful, don’t be mean because you never know if you might just provide them with their final reason to promptly expire later that night at home.”—I’m dead, this is synthetic.: We are all so fragile. (via eyemilk) (via happythings, emptysleeves-deactivated2010071)
He said that the majority of people live within a box, and that’s their entire reality. All they see is the inside of the box, and they’re ‘asleep’ to anything else. People that have suffered from some form of mental illness are ‘awake’, because they’ve seen reality outside the box. He said no matter how hard people try to put that person back into the box, they will never fit, because they’ve seen something beyond it all.